Lelo Loki Wave Review

Lelo Loki Wave Review

Lelo Loki Wave Review

Today on The Gritty Woman Blog we are doing things a little differently! My partner, Ben, was looking for a good prostate massager and came across the Lelo Loki Wave.

When he first tried it, we were both so impressed with the vibration power and sleek design of Lelo’s latest prostate vibrator that I just had to share his experience with you all here.

So, I am going to take a break from my regular posting today, and allow Ben to give you a full breakdown of the Lelo Loki Wave, including what this sex toy is, how you use it, who he would recommend it to, and (the best part) his experience with it. Keep reading to find out more…

Alright, Ben here, and as The Gritty Woman said earlier, the Lelo Loki Wave is a toy I am really excited to review.

I have to say, I am careful when I buy toys from Lelo. This Swedish sex toy company founded in 2002 prides itself on only selling the best of the best, and these upmarket toys can really run up on the price tag. I mean, pursue the Lelo website for yourself and you will see what I mean: this company means business when it comes to quality, brand, and aesthetics.

In fact, in 2021 Lelo was voted the Best Luxury Brand of the Year by the XBIZ Europa Awards. So, when I do purchase from Lelo and spend the money, like I did with the Lelo Loki Wave, I make sure the experience and going to be worth my spending, and trust me, this time is really was.

What is the Lelo Loki Wave?

In simplest terms, the Lelo Loki Wave is a vibrating prostate massager. But, this prostate vibrator is far from simple. Lelo has jam-packed this thing with so many innovative features that will definitely bring your masturbation to a whole new level. Prostate pleasure seekers- pay attention here. 

What first makes this product stand out from other prostate vibrators on the market is its patented Wavemotion Technology. This new and original technology creates a unique vibrating pattern within the toy that creates a “come hither” motion that directly targets and deeply massages your prostate. 

For newbies here, you might need a bit of a breakdown on why this is such a fantastic feeling. Well, the prostate is this small muscular gland that sits about two inches inside the anus, towards your penis. When massaged correctly, the prostate can help you reach an incredible orgasm.

In all honesty, if you have not given yourself the pleasure of a prostate orgasm yet, you are missing out. And although only people with male sex organs can achieve prostate orgasms, The Gritty Woman has told me that it is equally satisfying to help me get there, and watch me tremor with pleasure.  

There are two ways to stimulate your prostate, and Lelo has thought of both with the Lelo Loki Wave. First this toy is used internally to reach and pleasure your prostate through your rectunm. There is more though: it also has a second vibrating arm that works its magic to externally pleasure your perineum, a small area of skin between your anus and your balls. 

Now, this double vibrating stimulation paired with the first of its kind “come hither” motion of the internal arm of this toy can be intimidating at first, but my advice is to trust the experts. This dual sensation will give you really deep, intense vibrating and sensations that will have your whole body shaking with pleasure.

Lelo Loki Wave: The Details

So, now that we know exactly how the best prostate orgasm of your life will be achieved, what are the specs of this toy?

The Lelo Loki Wave comes in an easy to hold size of 3.6 x 7.7 x 1.7 inches. It is expertly designed to fit exactly how you want it to, both inside and along your rectum and perineum. This makes it as comfortable as anal penetration can be. The body safe, silicone material that the Lelo Loki Wave is made out of adds to this comfort, since silicone feels soft and smooth which is exactly what you want for this part of your body. In my books, minimal discomfort leads to maximum pleasure.

The insertable length of the Lelo Loki Wave is approximately 3.5 inches, which can be inserted all the way or just slightly inside in order to hit your prostate exactly where you need it to. Its diameter is about 1.5 inches, which feels large inside of you, although it doesn’t look it. It might take some time to get used to this sensation, but it also feels exactly like a finger is slowly and expertly massaging your prostate with this “come hither” motion it achieves, so that definitely helps.

Along with the Lelo Loki Wave itself, Lelo also gives you a USB charging cord to make sure this toy is always powered up and at your disposal. It takes about 2 hours to charge the Lelo Loki Wave fully, and then you have a full 2 hours of run time: plenty of time to discover for yourself how a powerful prostate massager can bring on a powerful, powerful orgasm, really like nothing you’ve felt before. 

Finally, the Lelo Loki Wave comes with a storage pouch to keep the toy in, which is a thoughtful touch to keep this toy clean and secretly stored away before you next session.

How do I use this prostate massager?

This is a common question of both new and experienced “prostate explorers” because the double arm power of the Lelo Loki Wave is a new concept for many users. 

First and foremost, you are going to need lube, and I recommend you use a lot of it. Do not skimp on lube here, because you want this experience to be as pleasurable as possible, and if you are a first time user it will take some trial and error to get the dual arms of the Lelo Loki Wave exactly where you want them to be.

As this toy is silicone, you have to use a water-based lube to not ruin the composition of the Lelo Loki Wave’s material. Do not ignore this advice, because the Lelo Loki Wave is a well-constructed toy, and you want to keep it that way. If you are unsure about what Lube to use, Lelo sells a Lelo Moisturizer that they suggest you apply liberally to the toy and yourself for maximum pleasure.

I would suggest foreplay with your partner or maturbating with porn before using this toy, because you need to be good and horny and relaxed to really enjoy the intense vibration of the Lelo Loki Wave. Once you are properly turned on and lubed up, you are ready to use this toy. 

You are going to want to slowly penetrate your recturm with the Lelo Loki Wave’s longer arm, and emphasis on slowly. Especially if you are a first time user, anticipate some discomfort as you get more familiar with anal penetration. 

Experiment with the positioning of the Lelo Loki Wave to get into a spot that feels most comfortable. Then, use this toy’s powerful 5 button interface and 10 vibration settings to get to where you want to be. I will tell you a bit about my own preferences when it comes to using the Lelo Loki Wave, so that you know exactly what you expect.

My experience with the Lelo Loki Wave:

Lelo Loki Wave
Lelo Loki Wave
Lelo Loki Wave

Now, I will admit that I am a seasoned prostate massager user. In my opinion, once you have your first prostate orgasm, you will be wondering what you have been doing your whole life before by limiting yourself to just regular jacking off. Really guys, there is a whole other orgasm sensation out there, and it is addicting. 

When I get my Lelo Loki Wave into a comfortable position, I like to explore with the lower vibration settings first: trust me, nothing good comes from shocking your system down there- take it easy, I also find that sometimes I need to readjust the second external arm to make sure it is hitting that spot below my balls that I want it to.

Two things I suggest you keep near you when using the Lelo Loki Wave: lube and towels. Comfort and clean-up guys, you will thank me later.

Once I am settled into the more slow and gentle vibrations, I like to amp things up by giving myself more powerful external vibrations while turning on the “come hither” motion I mentioned earlier. The rumbles of vibration under my balls and intense “pulling finger” feeling on my prostate is exactly what I need. I get this deep, building feeling inside me, and when I notice more pre cum, I know that I am really milking my prostate and getting close to that big orgasm.

Here is when I turn up the vibration further, and often I like to stroke my cock at this point to add another level of instenity to what is to come (literally). 

A lot of men describe the prostate orgasm to be similar to the orgasms you get from regular penis masturbation, only more intense. I agree. I find I can feel its throbbing, overpowering sensation throughout my whole body. If I am being real, it is hard to capture just how intense and overwhelming this orgasm is with words. That is why I keep coming back for more, and feel so confident about the Lelo Loki Wave. 

Who would I recommend the Lelo Loki Wave to?

#1. Men who struggle to reach a prostate orgasm

Really, sometimes regular old finger self-massages or prodding from your partner just do not cut it. If you find yourself really craving a prostate massager and want to experience a prostate orgasm for yourself, the Lelo Loki Wave can help you get there.

#2. People who want to go about things quietly

Lelo intelligently designs their sex toys be to be whisper quiet. Worried about roommates or thin walls? With the Lelo Loki Wave, the sound of these powerful dual vibrations and even the Wavemotion Technology never exceeds 50 decibels. To put that into context, your electric toothbrush is louder. 

#3. More adventurous users

The Lelo Loki Wave’s dual external and internal stimulation is not for people who want to tread lightly in the world of prostate orgasms. And while prostate massagers with just a single internal stimulator work fine, you will eventually get to a place where you want to bring your pleasure to the next level, and the Lelo Loki Wave anticipates that. 

The Lelo Loki Wave also expands your possibilities to take things outside the bedroom by being 100% waterproof. This means you can enjoy prostate massages with the added comfort of being in the shower or bath.

The waterproof quality of this toy also makes it easy to clean, and in all honesty you have to be diligent with your cleaning of this toy considering where it is going.  Submerge this toy in warm soapy water after each use, and allow it to air dry before storing it away. You can also opt for an antibacterial sex toy wash if you want to be more careful with your cleaning.

Final Thoughts 

I think after you have read this article, you will understand exactly why I consider the Lelo Loki Wave to be an excellent purchase. I have yet to use another prostate vibrator that makes prostate orgasms so comfortable and easy to achieve, and for me that is definitely worth the money.

Better yet, if you purchase the Lelo Loki Wave on the official Lelo website, you can guarantee yourself the bonus of free and discreet shipping, a 1 year warranty on the toy, and 10 year quality assurance from Lelo.  

Go ahead and discover for yourself what all the hype is around prostate orgasms with the Lelo Loki Wave. 

About the Author

Hi! I’m The Gritty Woman. I'm the writer, photographer, and creator of thegrittywoman.com, a leading sex blog, where I share my personal experiences and knowledge on sex, sexuality, body positivity, BDSM and kink.