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Using Male Sex Toys: The Truth And The Lies

“Sex toys are for men that can’t get laid” Not that long ago, female masturbation was considered taboo. Slowly, this has been changing, but when I was growing up, it wasn’t discussed. Of course, boys did it, I’d heard that much. Boys had urges. Jokes would be told, about wet dreams, tissues kept under pillows and […]

Beginners Guide To Chastity Part 1: Fitting and Measuring for a Chastity Device

Table Of Contents Measuring For A Comfortable Chastity DeviceMeasuring For The Main RingMeasuring For The Cage LengthMeasuring For The Cage DiameterThe Importance Of Spacers *This guide is part of a comprehensive series on male chastity. Keep your eyes peeled for part 2, coming soon* When deciding to purchase a chastity device, one of the most common requirements […]

Why Women Feel Insecure When Men Turn Down Sex

As a young female, I was exposed to a myth, a generalisation that caused me to suffer a great deal of insecurity, confusion and upset. At one time or another, you will probably have been exposed to this myth too. I am talking about the idea that men always want sex.  The belief that the […]

Orgasm Denial Games and Ideas

Jump straight to my list of orgasm denial games, ideas and tips. Orgasm denial (also known as orgasm control and erotic sexual denial) is a sexual practice in which a person is kept in an elevated state of arousal for extended periods of time, but denied the gratifying release of orgasm. For those who want to […]

Best and Worst Sex Toys Reviewed in 2013

Table Of Contents Best Sex Toys for Females4th Place: The Tantus Cush3rd Place: The Doxy Massager2nd Place: The We-Vibe Tango1st Place: The We-Vibe TouchBest Sex Toys for Males2nd Place: The Tenga Flip Hole (silver)1st Place: The Anthro Dragoness Masturbation SleeveBest Anal Sex Toys2nd Place: The Tantus Ryder1st Place: The Fun Factory DukeBest Kink and BDSM […]

Beginners Guide to Chastity and Orgasm Denial

Table Of Contents Chastity And Orgasm DenialWhy Do People Enjoy Chastity And Orgasm Denial?How Can I Experience Orgasm Denial?Methods Of Orgasm DenialEdgingRuined OrgasmHow Can I Ruin An Orgasm?Physical Ways To Ruin An OrgasmPsychological Ways To Deny OrgasmSome Tease And Denial Ideas To Get You StartedImportant Things To Remember Chastity And Orgasm DenialSo, you want to […]

Great Big Guide To Personal Lubricants

Why Should I Use Personal Lubricants?Have you ever eaten a slice of delicious crusty bread without a good smearing of real butter? It’s not that you CAN’T eat that slice of bread, or that the bread is not enjoyable in itself, but you may feel that something is missing, or that it tastes just a […]

Beginners Guide To Experimenting With Anal Play

This guide is intended for both males and females who want to experience anal play and is written for beginners.Before We Begin With Anal PlayAnal play can be extremely enjoyable and a fantastic addition to your sex life, whether alone or with a partner. I do however, find it quite disheartening to read (Surprisingly often) […]

Bad Dragon Custom Options

Table Of Contents The Custom Options On Bad Dragon DildosSizeFirmnessColourCum Tube And Suction Cup Bad Dragon is one of my favorite sex toy manufacturers and just one of the reasons why I love this company so much is because they allow you to customize your own dildo or masturbation sleeve. All of their products are made […]

The Jelly Sex Toy Massacre (Dangerous Sex Toys)

I remember purchasing my very first sex toy. I was a stereotypical first time buyer. I was thinking about sizes and vibration speeds and wondering how each toy would feel. I was looking at all the colours and shapes and imagining the different ways they could be used. I was worried about spending my hard […]