Best Sex Couch

Best Sex Couch

Best Sex Couch, July 2021

When you are shopping for new furniture for your home or apartment, do you let your mind wander to what sex positions could work really well on that particular couch or chaise?

If the answer is yes, why not take the full plunge and learn more about your options when it comes to furniture specifically made for sex?

Luckily for you, the sex furniture and sex couch market continues to expand, offering creative and functional designs to bring your sex life to the next level.

How? Well, generally sex couches allow you and your partner to get into different positions far easier than the average mattress, couch, tables, floor, or wherever you and your partner like to get it on.

I would recommend sex couches to couples who might have different conditions that prevent them from easily getting into their most satisfying sex positions, or for people who crave a little more adventure than the regular bedroom routine (think: new positions for PIV, oral, and even anal sex). Trust me, everyone can use a little extra help when it comes to reaching that mind-blowing orgasm we all desire.

For the purpose of this article, I am going to focus on the pros and cons of one of my favourite sex couches: the Liberator Esse. Liberator is a company that was founded in 2001, and they are widely known for their sex couch furniture. They also make their products in the USA.

In fact, you may or may not already be familiar with their Liberator Wedge Pillow and Liberator Ramp. While these accessories are more portable, the Liberator Esse is a sex couch that acts as a permeant fixture in your own, to amp up your sex life whenever you desire it to.

This sex couch is elegant, comfortable, and serves so many different purposes that once I explain them all to you, you will be dreaming up some very sexy nights in!

Why a Sex Couch?

I once had a conversation with a guy I was sleeping with about why he purchased a sex couch that really stuck with me.

He mentioned that he enjoyed having this piece of furniture specially made for his and his partner’s own pleasure, that did not have to double as a place to entertain guests or eat snacks like a regular couch does.

For him, having a sex couch really brought the experience of sex to a heightened level, outside of his regular routine. After that conversation, I was sold.

Another great benefit of the sex couch is the creativity it provides couples of all abilities an easy way of getting into the best sex positions for their own pleasure.

Sex couches truly break down barriers when it comes to getting to that ultimate sex position for you and your partner to enjoy.

As well, sex couches allow you to hold that position comfortably. I will say, there is nothing more disappointing than getting into a position that your partner is getting a lot of pleasure from, but is bringing muscle aches or discomfort to your body, or vise versa, so that you have to then switch out.

Eliminate that discomfort buy using furniture like a sex couch which is intuitively made to suit all different kinds of PIV, oral, and anal sex positions that every partner can feel comfortable in.

On the same note, safety can be a big concern for couples who like to be more adventurous with their sex positions! One way to avoid the awkward situation of a busted headboard or broken chair by investing in a sex couch.

You can also dodge the even more awkward situation of showing up in the emergency room with a sex-related injury. Sex couches are more durable against rough sex because that is exactly what is in mind when they are designed. 

Moverover, readers who are dedicated to establishing a sex room or kinker dungeon in their house will know that no room is complete without a sex couch. This is a great place for foreplay, roleplay, and the main event to occur.

What about the Liberator Esse?

Now that I have you thinking about all the different ways a sex couch can fit into your sex life, let us talk about what features the Liberator Esse offers.

The first thing I want to discuss is the size of this sex couch. Now, keep in mind that it is a large piece of furniture: the Liberator Esse measures 5’7 long, 1’8 wide, and 1’8 tall. So, if you decide to purchase this sex couch you might want to consider how it will fit into your current space, especially if you think it will be something you plan to move from room to room.

I have known people to keep their sex couches away in their basement for a sexy room apart from the house, or to incorporate it into their bedroom by tucking it at the end of their bed.

Next, let us look at the shape. The Liberator Esse is a sex couch that is higher on its two sides, and dips in the middle. This sex couch offers a removeable cushion that when on the couch can make it flat and when removed gives the furniture more of a curved design. This adds to the versatility of the sex positions you can achieve.

It also features a headrest that can comfortably cradle your read during the roughest sessions, or alternatively can be a comfy spot to rest your head as you scroll on your phone, if you are looking to make this sex couch a more permanent fixture in your home.

Regardless, the removable headrest and cushion and the curved design of the Liberator Esse makes it a great way to achieve deeper penetration and especially help couples really reach that ever-pleasurable g-spot during sex.  In terms of material, the Liberator Esse sex couch has a faux leather covering that is machine washable which is essential when you need to wipe clean the material that will surely get dirty.

It also features a moisture proof nylon lining that will ensure that the couch is not damaged by sweat or cum or even lube. The top part of this sex couch has thick foam padding that provides ultimate durability and comfort during passionate sex. 

An additional feature that I should mention as well is the D rings on this sex couch that allows users to explore with BDSM and bondage.

This is what I am talking about when I say that sex couches allow couple to bring their sex life to the next level: I am talking restraints, ropes, handcuffs, you name it!

As always, this is only fun when both parties enthusiastically consent to this kinker play, so make sure you have a conversation with your partner beforehand about what will turn them on.

Another thing I love about the Liberator Esse sex couch is that some models of this sex couch can pass as regular, every day furniture. 

This is a necessity for people who live in smaller homes or apartments, and can only bring in furniture that they know they will get lots of use out of.

Consider purchasing the Liberator Esse sex couch in a colour that best suits the decor already in your home; they come in a variety of options. The Liberator Esse sex couch can easily conceal as a ottoman, chiase, day bed, or sofa.

Now I need to talk about the less fun thing: price. I will admit, this sex couch is not in the same ball park as your average sex toy. For price you are looking at around $480 dollars, but before you make a decision, consider what you are getting: a fully functional and large piece of furniture that can fit into your living and also provide you with what you might find to be the best sex of your life.

Now does that cost sound better?

How to use a sex couch?

What I personally love about the Liberator Esse sex couch, and in fact all sex couches, is that they offer easy positiong for couples who want to experiment with more Tantric or Kama-Sutra inspired positions. These positions allow you and your partner to be closer physically, emotionally, and spiritually through sex.

These positions also really focus on the journey of sex and the pleasure it provides, and you can only really get into that headspace when you are not worried about the durability or comfort level of the furniture that you are on- all the more reason to invest in a sex couch.

Something else I enjoy is how a sex couch can increase my and my partner’s pleasure in regular positions like doggy style and missionary. For doggy style, The Liberator Esse sex couch naturally raises by butt to allow my partner to get into a position that is really pleasuring for both of us, not to mentional, it allows of very easy g-spot stimulation which can bring on an incredible orgasm.

In terms of missionary, the curved “dip” design of the Liberator Esse sex couch puts your body as a really natural and comfortable angle that I can assure you, will never make you scoff at the “mundane” missionary position again!

Best Sex Couch, July 2021
Best Sex Couch, July 2021

I should mention for anyone who enjoys oral sex but stuggles to get into the right positon, the Liberator Esse sex couch pretty much eliminates that awkwardness. The intuitive design of the Liberator Esse sex couch slightly lifts your hips so that you, or your partner, can easily be a happy recipient or giver of some awesome oral pleasure.

One more thing that really surprised me when I gave the Liberator Esse sex couch a try was how noiseless the sex couch was! Now, do not get me wrong, I enjoy hearing some moaning and dirty talk during sex, but the sound of a headboard smacking a wall or an old couch squeaking can really distract me from focusing on my pleasure, which is not want you want during sex.

I really enjoyed how the Liberator Esse sex couch allows me to focus soley on my parter and my pleasure, without any extra worries or distractions that can get in the way of great sex. 

Final Thoughts

If you're looking to purchase a Liberator Esse for your home, it's best to go to a trusted supplier because, like with most sex toys, this is the safest option.

Otherwise, for couples or solo adventurers who are committed to taking their sex life up a notch, investing in a sex couch gets a big recommendation from me.

If you have the space and the budget for it, a sex couch is an investment that keep on giving as you discover new and exciting ways to pleasure yourself and your partner. 

About the Author

Hi! I’m The Gritty Woman. I'm the writer, photographer, and creator of thegrittywoman.com, a leading sex blog, where I share my personal experiences and knowledge on sex, sexuality, body positivity, BDSM and kink.