All You Need To Know About CBD + Sex

All You Need To Know About CBD + Sex

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Newsflash: CBD might very well might be the next best thing for your sex life.

If you're just jumping on to the CBD bandwagon, let me lay the ground work for how we get from (A) CBD, also know an cannabidiol, to (B) life changing sex…

When you hear the phrase CBD, your mind might automatically jump to weed, pot, or green goddess as some affectionately refer to it as. But, CBD is not necessarily derived from cannabis. CBD can also come from cannabis’s cousin plant, hemp.

With the rise in CBD oils being a publicly marketed product (read: supermarket aisles, spa products, boutique shops), there have been more and more innovative uses for this trendy product. You can buy CBD as tinctures, edibles, oils, gels and more, and use cannabidiol to curb pain, inflammation, anxiety, nausea, insomnia, and depression.

Now, all this sounds well and good, but as you might suspect my interest in CBD remains where my mind perpetually resides: between the sheets.

I’ve done a deep dive into CBD sex and really need to share what I have discovered- and experienced- with you all.

At the risk of sounding overly dramatic, CBD sex can absolutely be a ground breaking discovery for folks who are seeking out increased pleasure during sex. And really, who isn’t craving even more feel good sensations, whether it be with a partner or a solo self love session?

So, has cannabidiol sparked your interest? Join the club. Keep reading for my complete guide on the next best chapter of your sex life…

Cannabidiol (CBD) 101

All You Need To Know About CBD + Sex, October 2021

When I first heard about cannabidiol and considered experimenting with it during sex, I had two questions: is it legal, and will it get me high?

Call me a nervous type, but I was legit confused.

Thankfully, the answers to my questions are likely what you want to hear. 

Hemp cannabidiol is legal in most states. It is important to make the distinction that I am talking about cannabidiol derived from hemp plants, not marijuana. CBD can also be extracted from marijuana plants, but that product would only be legal in jurisdictions that have legalized weed, too.

Frankly, regulations around marijuana vary a lot between states and are always changing, so if you have concerns, search up your local laws or talk to your doctor.

No, cannabidiol will not get you high. CBD is a non-psychoactive substance, so you won’t be laughing uncontrollably or really craving potato chips. The sensation of being stoned is brought to you by THC, which is an entirely different cannabis ingredient that is not present in cannabidiol products (or, if it is, it comes in such trace amounts that it has no impact). 

Okay...if CBD doesn’t get you high, what does it do?

The effects of cannabidiol are different for all users, but people overwhelmingly comment on the natural remedy’s calming and relaxing effects. In my experience and in speaking with other people who swear by cannabidiol, CBD clears the mind of intrusive thoughts, alleviates aches and pains, and increases focus.

So, now I want you to imagine all of these things- calmness, relaxing, focus, clarity- and consider how they might alter sex for you. Imagine being totally present with your partner, relaxed when you receive and give pleasure, and completely focused on the moment you are in.

Is it a really sexy dream, or is it CBD sex? 

CBD and Sex: How Does It Change Things?

It is time for the moment you have all been waiting for: how exactly does cannabidiol improve sex?

The answer is a bit complex, because the effects of CBD sex really does come down to the individual. Depending on your body and your needs, CBD can serve different purposes to bring you to a new level of sexual pleasure. 

Let’s go over a few scenarios where CBD sex has proven itself transformative…

CBD and Sex Drive

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One of cannabidiol’s magical qualities is that this product, in its many different forms, can help balance your hormones. This has a positive impact on your libido. CBD can help increase your Estrogen, Estradiol, Progesterone and Testosterone levels, when decreasing your Cortisol hormone, which is the main contributor to stress.

The results? With your hormones levelled out, your sex drive can regulate and return to equilibrium too. Thus, CBD and sex drive have a clear and optimal connection. 

But, CBD and sex drive is not all biological. What’s going on in your mind also has a big impact on your desire for sex. Luckily, cannabidiol can help with this too.

While CBD cannot actually delete from your life the dreaded Sunday scaries or self conscious thoughts that pop into your head during sex, the product can help you reach a more relaxed state of mind. 

With less intrusive thoughts, you can hone in your focus on the pleasure you are receiving in the moment. Pair that with an overall feeling of calmness and comfort throughout your body, and you are in prime position to experience the orgasm of a lifetime. 

CBD and Pain Relief

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For some women, painful sex has become the norm. But it does not have to be that way.

Cannabidiol may help women with chronic conditions like endometriosis experience more comfort and pleasure during sex. Folks who suffer from body aches and pains that make sex less desirable can also benefit from cannabidiol because it increases blood flow to reduce inflammation.

Disclaimer, though: if you do frequently experience pain during sex, don’t self treat it with CBD before consulting with a medical professional. Your pain may be an indicator of a health issue that you should address and treat accordingly. I want all my readers having safe and pleasurable sex, always! 

CBD and Lubrication

As I said above, cannabidiol increases blood flow. The natural remedy does this by lighting up the cannabinoid receptors in your sex organs (of which there are many). More blood moving through to the most sensitive tissues on your body can help you feel more lubricated and attuned to pleasure during sex.

Cannabidiol Products to Try to Experience CBD Sex Yourself

So, you are now sold on the idea of CBD sex and need to get your hands on some high quality hemp products to bring your sex life from distracted to divine. Am I right?

Allow me to set you on the right path by sharing a few of my favorite CBD and sex drive products.


HONEST Botanicals CBD Gummies

If you’ve got a sweet tooth like I do, edibles might be your product of choice when it comes to CBD sex. But, the HONEST Botanicals CBD Gummies are anything but your run of the mill penny candy.

Let me explain: these delightful little chews are made with 20mg of CBD per bear. Beginners, proceed with caution. Consuming too much CBD from the get-go doesn’t give you the relaxed state you desire with cannabidiol, so I would recommend starting with just a small bite of one gummy and then dosing up if you need too.

There is just so much that goes into the making of the HONEST Botanicals CBD Gummies that I feel good about. These candies are 100% vegan and gluten free. Better yet, I they give me such a relaxing body buzz that my whole body lights up with pleasure when I consume them for CBD sex. And don’t even get me started on the deep sleep that follows...insomniacs, take notes.

Hope on over to the HONEST Botanicals Co. website to buy your own pack of CBD bears for only $36.


Moozii CBD Oil

Moozii is a feminine care company that I have only recently discovered and trust me, it was love at first sight. I am all for a brand that strives to create sustainable products that are accessible to all women, including women of colour who are often underrepresented in the female wellness industry. 

The Moozii CBD oil is as exciting as the brand it is under. There is so much care put into selecting the plant this CBD is extracted from; Moozii only uses slow-grown Danish hemp harvested at its peak bloom.

When you begin to experiment more and more with different CBD oils, you will quickly come to realize that this level of quality really does make a difference in the effects you feel from it.

Speaking of which, how does Moozii CBD oil make me feel? I will give you three words: euphoric, meditative, and curious. Essentially, the perfect triangle of feels to let me really explore and relish in different pleasure spots on my body. And, the orgasm that came after using Moozii CBD oil was equally as thrilling.

Experience the magic for yourself by visiting Moozii online. The Moozii CBD oil sells for $78 for 500mg.


High On Love Stimulating Sensual Oil 

High on Love Stimulating Sensual Oil is a hemp seed CBD oil that I’ve used to bring a little more excitement and sensation to my love making sessions. The verdict? It delivers.

This little and beautiful bottle- it could be mistaken for a luxury perfume- contains a smooth CBD oil that dispenses in tiny droplets with an easy to use eyedropper lid. I put one or two drops on my vulva and clitoris about 15 minutes before I anticipate sex, and rub it in gently. So yes,  I am required to give myself foreplay before foreplay with High on Love Stimulating Sensual Oil. Not complaining! 

From using High on Love Stimulating Sensual Oil, I notice that my body increases its natural lubrication, which I am partial to over using artificial lube products. More natural lube for me also translates to more sensitivity during sex, and faster orgasms. Frankly, it's a winning cycle that is well worth the $65 ticket. 

You can purchase your High on Love Stimulating Sensual Oil from the High On Love online store; just from the name, you know this company is an expert in CBD sex. 


Final Thoughts

Some products that hit the “trendy” level that CBD has tend to fall off the market as
quickly as they emerge, but the immense benefits of CBD really has me feeling like this natural remedy is here to stay.

Plus, I think there is still so much untapped potential for just how much CBD can revolutionize the way we experience sex.

If you’ve been curious about the relationship between CBD and sex drive, take this article as a sign to give it a try for yourself. Who knows- CBD sex might very well be that key you need to unlock a whole new world of pleasure. 

About the Author

Hi! I’m The Gritty Woman. I'm the writer, photographer, and creator of thegrittywoman.com, a leading sex blog, where I share my personal experiences and knowledge on sex, sexuality, body positivity, BDSM and kink.