Beginners Bondage

A Beginners Guide to the Ultimate Bondage Experience

How to Get Started With Bondage:

There’s no need to be afraid of bondage if you tackle it properly. Our guide tells you all about it, and how to introduce it to your own love life.

Bondage may seem like a scary word, but it doesn’t need to be! With the right tools, tricks and plenty of time, it can become a fun way to express yourself in the bedroom. Bondage means playing with the dynamics of a relationship, which means that when it comes to who is in charge, those roles may be reversed. You may do things that you’ve never done before, let alone even thought of! As long as what you are doing follows that all important mantra – safe, sane and consensual, you will be experiencing pleasure like you never have before.

What’s it all about?

So what is bondage? To put it simply, it is the act of restraining one partner for the mutual satisfaction of both parties. Restraint can be achieved in a number of ways, from ties to handcuffs. Most adult retailers offer a varied range of bondage goods, there are under bed restraints, wrist ties and even some cheeky accessories such as whips and chastity cages to take your bondage experience to the next level too.

To buy or not to buy

The problem is, when there’s so much on offer, it can be hard to decide what to buy. That’s where bondage kits come in! These are a great way to get started with all things bondage, containing all you need to get to grips with this new addition to your sex life. There are a great selection of bondage kits available, and they really do cater for all! From beginner’s bondage kits that contain the very basics, to more adventurous options that contain treats for the more seasoned enthusiasts, there really is something for everyone. So the simple answer to the ‘which one shall I choose?’ question is this – you don’t have to! These little boxes of naughty delights will be all that you need to take your sex life from zero to a hundred!

Start off slowly

Beginners Bondage SetWhen you’ve bought the toys, set the date and both agreed that bondage is something that you definitely want to try, ease into it gently. After all, it’s a lot easier to start off with a blindfold or a pair of handcuffs than going full throttle with a whip or a gag. Take your time, exploring the dynamic between you both (it may surprise you who wants to take charge!) and if at any point something makes you uncomfortable – stop! By figuring out your boundaries and what exactly turns you on, you’ll be having sex that’s in a league of its own.

You’re all set!

Of course, after you have indulged in all the beginner’s stuff, there is a whole world of bondage to explore. Hopefully our guide has shown you how to get started (believe us, once you have, there’s no stopping you!) Just remember to pay attention to your partner, and focus on their and your own pleasure. After all, that’s what really good sex is all about. Remember, the internet is your friend, especially if there is something new you want to add to your collection!

Lisa Devlin is the Director for one of the UK’s leading online adult retailers- Forbidden Obsession. As one of the first retailers in the UK to offer a sex toy recycling service, Lisa and the team hope to offer an eco-friendly (and less embarrassing!) option to discarding of old sex toys and making room for new ones!

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