Photograph by Aimee Plesa

My Fantasy – Having Sex With an Escort

I want to tell you about one of my favourite fantasies. In it, I hire an escort and invite her around to give my partner a night to remember. The catch? Until the last minute, he doesn’t even know she is there.

I imagine sneaking her into the house one night. She knows the drill, so I leave her waiting silently in the shadows while I nip upstairs to prepare. I find him naked in bed, casually flipping through channels on TV. All it takes is a glance, but the expression on my face and the rope in my hands convey my intentions clearly. He grins cheekily and throws off the covers, revealing his naked body. His confidence makes me grin. He really has no idea what is coming.

Using the rope, I tie tight loops around his wrists and ankles, then secure the ends to the bedposts. I watch him struggle feebly against his binds as he lies spread-eagled before me. He looks so helpless, but his erection betrays his true feelings. I give him a sly little smile as I slip the blindfold over his eyes.

I put on some music; my cue to the woman waiting downstairs. She enters the roon silently, as I straddle his thighs and drip warm oil over his body. As the minutes pass, I gradually slide my hands lower, working my way down towards his throbbing cock. When I feel that I have denied him enough, I wrap my slippery hands around his shaft and slowly work him to the edge of orgasm. I know he will tell me when to stop. He doesn’t have permission to cum yet.

Needing an excuse to hop off the bed, I get up and grab a cock ring. With a quick nod, I hand her the ring and indicate that she should take over. She takes my place on his lap, oils up her hands and slowly slides the ring down his shaft. She has been watching me closely and imitates my technique. I watch her edge him, over and over, until I sense he is approaching his limit.

I tiptoe to the head of the bed and soak in the sights as this beautiful woman mercilessly teases my partner. She catches my eye and I give her the nod; this time, she won’t stop stroking him when he says stop. Slowly, torturously, she builds his arousal again. I watch his chest rise and fall and his hips pump faster as he begs for permission to cum. I know I have to time this just right, but I know him well and have no problem spotting his cues. As he approaches the edge, I lean in close to his ear and tell him what a bad boy he is. I whip off the blindfold and watch as he explodes in this strangers hands.

I always thought my fantasy was unusual, but in my research as a sex blogger, I discovered I am far from alone. There are many men and women out there, who have imagined and/or considered hiring an escort to help them fulfil their greatest desires. So, why would somebody choose to hire an escort, instead of dating, or finding a long term partner? Here is a list of the most common reasons;

They are seeking company and companionship:

Before researching my fantasy, I believed most clients would hire an escort for a quick sexual thrill. This may often be the end goal, but most report better experiences when they could connect with the escort on a cerebral level. Perhaps this is why the girlfriend or boyfriend experience is so popular. It satisfies a desire for deeper intimacy, as well as sharing good company and companionship.

They don’t have time for a relationship

Some people don’t have the time to date, let alone settle down with a partner. Maybe their careers, or other commitments, keep them away from home a lot and they find it difficult to maintain a relationship. These people hire escorts for the company and to take care of sexual urges.

They can’t find a long term partner

There are so many reasons why a person might struggle to find a partner. They might be extremely nervous when approaching the opposite sex and this causes them to be overlooked. Maybe they find it difficult to form bonds with people. Some people believe that their appearance, personality and/or disability is a stumbling block to finding love. For most of us, the urge to seek sex is built into our very nature. People who struggle to find a partner can satisfy their urges by spending time with an escort.

They want to lose their virginity, or gain sexual experience

For some people, losing their virginity is an important rite of passage and they want to ensure the experience is a good one. An escort is there to cater to your (previously agreed upon) needs and this can help a person feel more comfortable and ensure the experience goes the way they imagined. Some people with little to no sexual experience, will hire an escort to learn the ropes before getting involved in a romantic relationship with somebody else.

They have a particular fantasy they would like to act out

Some people feel uncomfortable sharing their fantasies with a romantic partner, or have shared in the past, only to be told it will never happen. For others, their fantasy involves more than two people (my fantasy is a classic example of this). It is easier (and safer) to find an escort who is happy to act out your fantasy, than it is to find a willing stranger in a bar.

Sex is lacking (or non-existent) within a relationship

While I personally don’t think it is acceptable to cheat on your partner, there is no getting away from the fact that this is a common reason to visit an escort. For many, this arrangement means they can satisfy their sexual urges on a professional level, rather than starting an affair. Some say it helps to reduce strain on a relationship they are otherwise happy to stay in.

Conclusion:

People from all walks of life are hiring escorts for a myriad of reasons, but sex and companionship are among the most common. Most are looking to share an exciting, no strings attached experience with a discreet, professional person. If I were to offer advice to anyone looking to hire an escort, it would be to weigh up the pros and cons carefully and do your research beforehand. This way, you are much more likely to have a good experience, opposed to a night of regrets.

I don’t know if I will ever act on my fantasy, but it is certainly fun to think about it. Have you ever considered hiring an escort? Have you hired one in the past? I’d love to hear your stories. Leave your comments in the box below.

This post is sponsored by Peachy Escorts, a London based escort agency that offers a variety of high class escorts.

Header image: Photograph by Aimee Plesa on Flickr (Slightly Modified)

7 replies
  1. Lesley
    Lesley says:

    Very well written and accurate information. More information such as this needs to be made available to the public. I would love to use this page as a link from my blog!!!

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  2. Boy
    Boy says:

    Done it. Recommend it. Do it.
    There is one caveat: you really, really have to be comfortable with your partner; there is no room for ego.

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  3. Heaven
    Heaven says:

    This is a lot common these days, even in the cam world I get members asking me if I have ever escorted and I tell them no. I like the feel of being on the computer doing what I do but never in person. Just too many risks out there.

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  4. Sangsara
    Sangsara says:

    Gritty Woman I must compliment you again! As a sex worker and the girlfriend of a male sex worker, I appreciate this post. Your attitude is refreshing and your points very thorough. I’d also like to say that you are very good at writing sponsored posts- they don’t come off at all contrived and I love that you included a personal fantasy. I hope you were well compensated by the escort agency because you deserve it. Totally beats bull from someone focussed on sales rather than truth!

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    • GrittyWoman
      GrittyWoman says:

      Thank you Sansara! I was quite nervous about this post, as it is the first time I have dabbled with erotica/fantasy writing. It was so nice to get your seal of approval as a sex worker and fellow blogger. You made my day with this comment. All the best to you.

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