When shopping, I used to skip past the glass toys. I had my reasons at the time. First of all I believed that softer was better when it came to sex toy materials. I enjoyed dildos that offered some flexibility and some squishiness to them so I believed that glass would be too firm, maybe […]
I am based in the UK and have been in relationship with my long suffering boyfriend for 4 years. We both have a passion for sex, masturbation, sexuality and sex toys and we have spent the years experimenting and indulging our desires. I am not a sex educator, nor do I have any formal training or qualifications. My blog is brought to you by a highly sexed and open minded woman with over 10 years of sexual experience (With and without toys) under her belt. I hope you enjoy reading it as much as I have enjoyed writing it.
Entries by GrittyWoman
The Jessica Rabbit was one of my first sex toys. I have loved it (and it has loved me) for many years, so I thought I would try the Lovehoney Oh! Rabbit. The Oh! has been designed and modelled on the original Jessica Rabbit, so it seemed like a perfect upgrade in size and power […]
I have tried quite a few lubes over the years and have always come across niggles with each one. I am a fussy woman. My pet peeves include runny lubes that do not last long (and they get everywhere) lubes that dry up too fast and sticky lubes. I also had problems with some lubricants […]
Another treat for the boyfriend arrived in the form of this Fleshjack Sex in a Can Banana Cream Soda male masturbator. Compared to their Fleshlight cousins, Fleshjacks are generally smaller and more compact and we found the Fleshjack was easier to hold and control. The Sex in a Can strokers are designed to look like […]
I thought it was about time I spoilt my boyfriend, plus, the idea of watching him use a masturbator excited me. We tried a cheaper stroker first to make sure he liked the idea and then decided to invest in a Fleshlight. I asked him to have a look at the options and he chose […]
My first product from the Spartacus range arrived in the form of a collar and tweezer nipple clamps set which Lovehoney kindly sent me free to test and review. I love wearing collars and was very curious to find out if the attached nipple clamps would add to my enjoyment. They do, but what initially […]
Lovehoney kindly sent me the Mini Must as a free product for testing. Generally I do not enjoy bullets or smaller vibrating toys because they often lack the power that I need. The Mini Must is a small vibrator. It is 5 inches long (4 inches insertable) and has a 3.5 inch girth at its […]
If you have read any of my reviews you will probably know that I don’t usually enjoy buzzy vibrators, especially ones made of silicone. Usually the shallow vibrations feel weak as they travel through the silicone material. I cannot orgasm easily from shallow vibrations so buzzy toys do not get used again. The Release is […]
So we all know that initially, wand vibrators were designed as body massagers. However, some wily women soon found a more interesting use for the wand. Judging by the popularity of the wand vibrators over the last few years, Word has got out. So baring in mind the wands original intent, the first thing you […]
I was so excited when I heard about the We Vibe 2. An award winning toy that could simultaneously hit my G spot, as well as vibrate against my clit while I was being penetrated by my partner. That sounded perfect. It was different from anything I had tried before and curiosity got the better […]
I’m Gritty Woman and I am the writer, photographer and creator of thegrittywoman.com, a leading sex blog, where I share my personal experiences and knowledge on sex, sexuality, body positivity, BDSM and kink. On this blog you will find a little bit of everything, from in-depth and honest sex toy reviews and educational guides that cover many diverse areas of sexuality, to articles on fetish, kink and BDSM. Here I also share my erotic photography (One of my many passions) and erotic stories, both fiction and non-fiction.