How to Make Your Sex Life Even Kinkier
You may have got a little bored with your beginners’ toys, so it’s time to move on to something a little bit more daring.
Moving on to more advanced bondage play is a completely natural process – but it can seem confusing at times. What exactly constitutes ‘advanced’ and ‘beginner’ after all? You may be scared about taking that next step too, as it’s going to be a little more intense than what you are used to. Well, don’t worry – because we’re going to tell you how to move on and what accessories to treat yourself to.
Communication is important
As with any kind of bondage play, you and your partner need to have a pretty in-depth conversation before you get down to any kinky business. If you are moving on to a more advanced level, then you need to be sure that your partner is okay with that. Bondage play is like any other activity, people adjust and become comfortable at different speeds – and it’s so important to bear that in mind. So talk, a lot. You can discuss what you’d like to do and go from there.
More advanced toys
When you’ve decided that you want to take things to the next level, you should think about what kind of toys to treat yourself to. You’ve probably got the standard type of kit already. We’re talking blindfolds, handcuffs and maybe something like a soft whip or ticker. You’ll still be able to use these as part of some more advanced play, just with some new toys alongside them. So what should you go for? Well, for lovers of the book, the Fifty Shades of Grey Collection is a must. The bondage accessories are great for those who want to get even kinkier, with the nipple clamps, flogger and riding crop taking things up a notch. If you’ve dabbled in restraint using a pair of handcuffs, then the ‘Hard Limits’ bed restraint kit contains everything you need for full body restraint. If you like restraint play, using rope is also a good thing to look into, as there are thousands of different roads to go down, no matter your level of experience.
If you want to go even further…
There are others toys out there that take the whole experience to a new level. Sensory deprivation hoods are certainly not for the faint hearted – but are great for someone who wants to completely submit to their partner. Other kinds of more advanced toys include penis plugs and sounds, which can be inserted into the urethra and used to make the penis more sensitive. These kinds of toys need a bit of working up to, but you’ve put the ground work in already.
Now that you know how to approach the next level of bondage and what kind of toys to go for, there’s no reason why you shouldn’t go for it! Just remember the number one rule: safe, sane and consensual. As long as you bear that in mind and remember that it’s all about pleasure, then you’ll never have a vanilla night in again! So wait until you’ve got a whole evening to dedicate to a session and then put together everything we’re taught you in this guide. You’re welcome!
Lisa Devlin is the Director of one of the UK’s leading online sex toys retailer– Forbidden Obsession. Lisa believes that everyone should explore their sexual preferences, and that it is good to move out of your comfort zone once in a while!