Ultimate Guide To Pussy Pumps 

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Pussy pumps, in my humble opinion, are amazing little toys that can bring a whole new element of fun to your sex life. They can be a little intimidating at first. I’ve been there before which is why this guide to pussy pumps is going to be your new best friend.

If you haven't heard of a pussy pump before, this guide will also serve as a brief beginners look at what they are, how they work, and why you might want to consider one.

Pussy pumps can be considered a niche sex toy, and there are plenty people hardly know enough about. Even though it's considered niche, the pussy pump really shouldn't be and I'm a little shocked that it's not as popular.

Look, it's not for everyone and that's fine! It takes a long time to work up the courage to try out new sex toys and you should always go at your own pace, but a pussy pump should certainly be on your "to-do" list, so to speak.

To help you, the readers, understand these devices from their most basic explanation to the comprehensive purposes for them, this will act as a guide for using a pussy pump and which ones to look for.

It's a good thing for all of us that there are no shortages of pussy pumps out there to try out and help you find one that suits your needs. So lets go!

What is a Pussy Pump?

In short, a pussy pump is a device that is used to create suction when placed on the vagina, and the surrounding structures of the vagina. Pussy pumps come in many different sizes. Some are big enough to encompass the entire groin, while others focus solely on the clitoris and labia.

A chamber seals vaginal area and is connected to a pump system. When the pump system is activated, it creates a vacuum effect and the chamber is pressurized. This effect increases blood flow to the vagina and surrounding tissue of the groin.

Pussy pumpes can vary greatly in design and pump system. Most use of a simple bulb system (hand pump) which allows you to pump as little or as much as you'd like to create the vacuum effect. More advanced pussy pumps even have an air pressure gauge to help you better replicate suction levels and provide a more accurate pump. Variations to the bulb system and electronic systems are also available.

Removing the pussy pump is done with a quick-release valve or button intended to immediately release pressure. The valve works both as a way to remove the vacuum and as a emergency release in case you overdo it or need the pump off fast.

Why Use a Pussy Pump?

There are plenty of reasons to use a pussy pump and here are just 3 of the most popular uses for a pussy pump!

Pleasure

Everyone knows sex toys are intended to provide you pleasure, so that's one of the primary reasons why you might want to use a pussy pump!

How does it increase pleasure? Adding pressure to the clit and improving blood flow makes your entire private region much more sensitive and that means more pleasure (or pain if you're into BDSM). 

Increase Blood Flow

Speaking of blood flow, pussy pumps are great for increasing blood flow which has numerous benefits. Of course, I already mentioned how the increased blood flow to your kitty will increase pleasure, but it does more than just that.

Increasing blood flow to your vagina can help make stimulation easier, allowing for orgasms to occur quicker or more often. What's even better is that this increase in blood flow can help if you find yourself having trouble stimulating yourself, just remember not to overdo it.

Makes It Look Good

Some men use a penis pump to achieve a fuller, plumper looking dick, so why can't women do the same for our vaginas?

Using a pussy pump to puff up the labia and make it look good is aesthetically pleasing and is certainly a valid enough reason to use one. I've done it for this reason and so can you.

How Do You Use A Pussy Pump?

Using a pussy pump isn't a complicated task, but it should be done properly. Even though a pussy pump is perfectly safe when used right, it's always beneficial for you to learn the right way to use your sex toys for the best pleasurable experience and the safest experience.

Lube the Rim of the Suction Cup

Building up of pressure around your groin area can be a tiny bit uncomfortable without some lube on the cup. You can alleviate this problem by applying a little bit of water-based lube (always use this for sex toys), until the rim of the suction cup is slick. Adding too much lube isn't an issue, you can easily wipe it off, and most pumps will work fine regardless.

Properly Place the Cup & Create Your Seal

Place the cup of your pump on the desired area of your crotch and press down with your hand to hold it over that spot onto your body. This is the most important part, as an improper seal won't create a vacuum and you won't feel any pressure. Simply keep the downward force on the cup to ensure it isn't loose.

Start Pumping

Don't go crazy just yet. Start by giving some initial pumps to see if your seal is proper and tight. If it is, you can let go and begin pumping to your desired amount. 

Start with slow, controlled pumps that you can replicate for each successive pump, whether it's with the bulb or other system. Do this to see how each pump feels. It might feel a little uncomfortable at first if this is your first time, and that's normal, but immediately release the valve if you start to feel actual pain and wait some time before giving it another go.

Leave the Suction On

Once you reach a satisfying and comfortable pressure level, you're going to want to stop pumping and let it sit for about 5-15 minutes. This allows the blood flow to increase to the area, which you'll be able to see and feel in terms of sensitivity.

Remove the Pump and Have Fun

Once you've achieved the desired pressure, you can hit the release and put the pump aside.

The pumping effect will last for a bit, so don't feel like you need to start getting down to business right away. In fact, I like to wait a bit to allow some of the sensitivity to ease up. It's also good to use lube because the vacuum can sometimes make it dry down there, so it helps to keep it around.

From there, you can do as your heart desires!

Best Pussy Pumps Available

Developed in-house by the always reputable brand, the Lovehoney Supreme Sensation Pussy Pump is a perfect beginner foray into pussy pumping. A simple bulb pump system and a neat clear design allow you to feel fully involved in the process without complicating anything.

Having two valves, one near the bulb and the cup, is very forward thinking design on Lovehoney's part. If your partner's using the pump, then they can release the valve if need be.

It's just one of the reasons that makes this such a great all-around pussy pump for beginners or advanced users alike.

Another great reason for adding this pussy pump to your collection is that it has a great budget price without sacrificing on suction level. You'll get plenty of use out of it before you decide to move onto something a little more powerful or advanced.

The stiff plastic chamber never felt cheap, and it provides great suction for desired pumping.

Not the same as a traditional pussy pump, it's actually a cupping set, but they work very similarly. What makes this set so great is how many cups you get in different sizes to try out and find the right fit. 

Instead of a bulb, the DOMINIX Deluxe Cupping Set uses an ergonomic handle to allow you to easily control pressure. Unlike the Lovehoney Supreme Sensation, the max amount of suction is a lot higher, so don't try to go all out right away.

It's advertised as a BDSM toy because it can leave marks on the body from the cups.

As with any BDSM toy, be careful and don't overdo it.

You can find the release valves on the top of each cup. The cups come in sizes of1.5", 2", and 2.5" in diameter.

The cups are made of hard plastic. This toy is definitely stronger than others on the list so if you're looking for something a little more casual, you can find alternatives that provide more comfortable levels of pressure.

Usually you wait until the suction is over and the cup is off to start the fun but this pussy pump is for those who don't want to waste time.  With added vibration capabilities, the Vibrating Vagina Sucker Pussy Pump provides a two-stage approach to pleasure.

After a while, you start to realize nearly all pussy pumps look the same and it's just a cup with some kind of pump. What this vibrating pussy pump does differently is adding a rubber seal on the edges of the cup so it can fit more comfortably, a much-appreciated choice. This pussy pump also covers the entire vagina.

You'll notice that there is a vibrating egg on the top of the cup to stimulate more. It takes 2 AA batteries which sadly aren't included.

This toy isn't going to replace a vibrator, and the sensation isn't targeted, but it does add a little extra fun to the pussy pumping process.

If you want an ergonomic pussy pump that fits comfortably, this is a good choice.

It's no surprise that eventually an automatic pussy pump would come in to steal some spotlight away from the bulb pumps. The Doc Johnson Rechargeable Automatic Vibrating Pussy Pump is to pussy pumps what the car was to horse and carriage.

That might be a bit of a stretch, but it's definitely a convenient way to using one. It has a transparent (aside from the cup rim) head, and charges via USB. Three different levels of suction and seven different vibration modes put pleasure on autopilot. The cup isn't particularly big, but that actually works to its advantage as the vibrations are the right level of powerful.

The release valve is the easy to reach button on the handle, while the two red buttons below it control suction and vibration settings.

If you're familiar and experienced with pussy pumps, the suction setting is powerful with a capital P.

Just remember to know where the release valve button is if you're so daring to push this pussy pump to its limit.

There's a whole lot going on with this pussy pump. First, it uses silicone, rather than plastic. Secondly, it vibrates and lastly, it even has teasing ticklers.

Featuring the classic bulb system, this pussy pump isn't meant to simply puff up your pussy, it's intended to get you off at the same time too.

Once you get the suction right, you can turn on the vibrator and the teasing ticklers to amplify the sensitivity and pleasure provided by the pump.

Surprisingly, it only needs a single AA battery and that's enough power to get your motor running.

My only gripe is that it isn't clear, so you can't see what's going on. I wouldn't recommend this until you're comfortable with pussy pumps.

Looking to target your clit specifically for a bed-shattering orgasm? Then the Size Matters Magnum Clitoris Pump should be your new best friend.

It has 3 different chambers that should be good for most women, and it has a pressure gauge to let you know the PSI (pound per square inch). It made me feel like the mechanic for my pussy which was an unintended, but fun aspect of this toy.

Feeling too much pressure? The release valve is easily located on the handle next to the pump gauge.

Being able to see the exact amount of pressure I'm applying is good for future use, and when my partner Ben wants to use it on me. He can set the pressure level easily without much coordination from me so I can just lay back and enjoy.

You also get a miniature vibrator included with this pump, but it's nothing spectacular, especially if you already have one.

It's not bad for seeing how sensitive your engorged clit is after using the pump, so it does serve a purpose.

What to Consider When Buying Your Pussy Pump

I have tried quite a few pussy pumps and can tell you from experience that the only thing you will get from a cup that doesn’t fit is pain or disappointment. Measure yourself from just above the top of your clitoral shaft,(Where the fatty part of the pubic mound begins) right down to your perineum. (Just below your vaginal entrance.)

You can also measure the width from one side of the bikini line to the other. You probably wont find an exact fit, but try to find a pussy pump with a cup that most closely resembles your measurements.

Pump Cup Size

Cups that are too large will half (or completely) cover your anus. This means that every time you “pump” it sucks harshly at the very sensitive and delicate skin around your anus and that just hurts.

You will experience most of the sucking and pulling sensations on your poor booty, rather than on your pussy and you will have to stop pumping before you feel much sensation on your vagina because your butt hurts too much. You cannot even move the cup back because your pubic mound curves.

In general the cups on pussy pumps do not curve enough to allow you to place it high enough on your pubic mound and still create an airtight seal. So cups that are too large are painful.

After my first experience with the cup that was too large I decided to purchase a pump that was advertised as “petite.” Well I assumed that, after my first experience, I must be tiny down there. This was mistake number two.

Cups that are too small are disappointing. The petite cup fit fine, sitting comfortably over the correct areas, but after two pumps (and barely any sensation) the cup was full. I couldn’t pump any more air out of the cup. Useless.

Safety Considerations for a Pussy Pump

Pussy pumps aren't the same as other sex toys and with that in mind, you need to take a few precations before using one. Here are some safety considerations for you to check out before pussy pumping.

Don't Pump Too Long or Too Often

Just a gentle reminder that using a pussy pump is safe, but as outlined in how to use a pussy pump, you don't want to use it for too long or too often.

Don't leave it suctioned onto your crotch for too long, and give yourself some time between sessions to allow for sensitivity and blood flow to return to normal.

Can Pussy Pumping Cause Damage?

I am not a doctor, nor do I have any qualifications in this area. I can only speak from personal experience. I have never experienced any damage, nor have I heard of it happening to anyone else but like anything, there is always a possibility .

Take it slow and listen to your lady and the chances of causing any damage are extremely slim. Do more research if this worries you.

How Long Will She Stay Swollen?

The swelling is temporary and it will begin to subside pretty soon after you stop pumping. You will probably notice the majority of the swelling disappears within an hour or two and by the next day everything will have returned to normal.

My Experience Using a Pussy Pump

The first few sucks feel amazing. At this point you can feel the suction on your clit. You can feel your clit harden and you can feel yourself swelling slightly. It is a nice tingly sensation. As you progress, the sensations can begin feeling very intense.

If you are looking for the swollen look you will need to push it further and at this point it is a pleasure/pain sensation.

On the one hand this suction on your intimate parts feels great but on the other hand it can feel uncomfortable, especially around your vaginal entrance and perineum or the edges of the cup where it can dig in as the pressure increases.

It isn’t a horrible pain (Unless you rush it or go too far too soon.) but depending on your tastes, this intensity can either heighten the experience or put you off altogether.

I suggest taking it slow at first and getting used to the sensations and finding your own limits.


Aside from the physical sensations, you can also feel mentally turned on when using a pump. The thought of how sensitive you will feel afterwards, the thought of your partners hand resting on the outside of the cup but you can’t feel it, the naughtiness of the situation and of course watching him or her enjoy the experience are all mental turn ons.

Conclusion

Using a pussy pump isn't for everyone, but with the right knowledge, the right attitude, and the right pump, you can explore an untapped world of sexual pleasure potential.

It's a safe, easy, and fun way to add more to your routine for sex or self-pleasure and it might be the thing you've been missing. The added sensitivity also brings with it some unique benefits like increased blood flow and can even help with stimulation. Ultimately it's up to you to decide what you want to use your pussy pump for, but remember to have fun, be safe, and keep an open mind.

About the Author

Hi! I’m The Gritty Woman. I'm the writer, photographer, and creator of thegrittywoman.com, a leading sex blog, where I share my personal experiences and knowledge on sex, sexuality, body positivity, BDSM and kink.